Simple Strategies For Preventing Caregiver Burnout

By Timothy Hayes


Taking care of a loved one is an honor. This gives people the chance to spend quality time with their family members before these individuals move on. Unfortunately, however, the responsibilities of caregiving can quickly become overwhelming, especially when people are managing these responsibilities on their own. Following are a few tips for avoiding caregiver burnout that will help you stave this all too common problem off.

The first thing that you need to do is to find out what this term really means and how it might impact your relationship with your aging relative. A lot of people feel overwhelmed and fatigued when managing full-time caregiver duties. With the right adjustments and stress management techniques, however, they will likely find themselves refreshed. When these same individuals allow themselves to become frustrated and resentful in a ongoing fashion, however, they stop being able to safely handle these responsibilities. This is when they have official burned out.

Take some time to talk with other family members and to ask for help when you need it. You may have a sibling or two that can assist with a few of your regular responsibilities, so long as you make sure to ask. It is never good to assume that people in your family want you to do it all alone.

Think about joining a local support group. This will allow you to meet up with people who share similar challenges and goals. You can vent your emotions in these groups and can also share tips, strategies and resources. Some group members may even be willing to share care giving services so that people can take breaks when they need them.

Taking part in these activities will definitely be helpful if you are providing care for someone who has a degenerative illness like Alzheimer's or even Parkinson's. These ailments can make your job especially demanding. Find out whether there are any local social services that can help as well. Things like meal delivery can simplify your work quite a bit.

Your first priority should always be taking care of yourself both mentally and emotionally. If you aren't in a good way, you cannot expect to be able to provide decent care to your charge. Always get good sleep, make time for exercise, maintain a healthy diet, and get out and socialize. If you are not taking care of yourself in each of these areas, the risk of you burning out is going to be high.

Take advantage of respite care and professional home care services from time to time. This is extra help that will allow you to meet up with friends, spend more time with your spouse and meet the needs of your kids. Some people even use these services when they want to work part-time or go on vacations.

Whenever you start to feel resentful or angry towards your loved one, make sure to schedule in a break. Balance is everything and this will prevent you from doing or saying things that you might later regret. With careful planning and a willingness to take advantage of all your available resources, you can make the most of this special time that you get to share with your loved one.




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